
is a choice
I had the opportunity this holidays to forgive.
Once I did, my shock, anger & despair dissipated
It is always up to me to choose forgiveness or stay wrapped up tightly in shock, anger, despair & self-doubt.
I’m NOT saying I didn’t experience a lot of emotional shit before getting there I did. The depth of my emotions were actually what shocked me into forgiveness. Once I had allowed myself to feel the depth of my not so fluffy emotions, I had a choice to stay and indulge my self-pity & desire for ‘retribution’ (Please add some awesome Darth Vadering voice to ‘Retribution’) or pick myself up & say ok enough. Forgive, learn from this & move on.
Leave a comment